Probably not a third party one, since each routers' firmware is different and it'd be impossible to create a universal peice of software for that job.

I havent heard of it, but some routers could have this feature as standard. You'll probably be best contacting a few router manufacturers and asking if any of their models have a feature like the one you are after.

I hope this helps,
Tom.

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